Week 17: 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – A church full of memories (and rust-orange carpet)

Ancestor of the Week: [Not a person this week] Del Norte Baptist Church – Tucson, Arizona
Prompt of the Week: At Worship

This week I’m writing about the church that I grew up in until age 12. My parents attended Del Norte with their families at least since the late 1960s or early 1970s. In fact, my parents met there as teens in the youth group, and my dad’s siblings met their spouses there as well. My grandmother was the pianist for decades and my grandfather taught adult Sunday School for just as long. Their social circle really seemed to revolve around the people there as well. My mom’s family was also very involved. My maternal grandfather help to build the main worship center auditorium through his construction business. It was the site of several family weddings, funerals, performances, and more. We will all fondly remember the stained glass, octagonal ceiling, and rust-orange carpet. The church changed its name to New Life Baptist Fellowship around the late 1990s, but by then most of us had moved on to other churches. In later high school, my brother and I attended some of their youth group events when school friends invited us. It was a little strange going back after several years. They didn’t know it, but I had attended that church longer than most of the kids there at the time. The Fellowship Hall – location of my parents’ wedding reception, family funeral luncheons, and more – was now the youth room. When my wife and I were planning our wedding a few years later, our first choice was to have the ceremony at this church (we thanked Jesus the carpet had been replaced), since the church we attended was too small. It felt right going back and standing on the same stage where my parents said their vows 26 years before, where I performed in plays and stood as a ring-bearer as a kid, where my great-grandmothers were eulogized, and more.

Since then, the church property was sold to another church, and about a year ago, a friend posted on Facebook that several of the buildings on the campus were being demolished. I decided to drive by a couple days ago and see for myself. All that remains is the main auditorium building – which may still be in use, as a couple cars were parked outside. The old Fellowship Hall, Sunday School buildings, etc. are all gone. (New Life as a church actually still exists, is now called New Life Bible Fellowship, and has a newer building not far from my home.)

Week 16: 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – A shotgun wedding in the Southwest?

Ancestors of the Week: Rita Eccles (1910-2013) [my wife’s great grandmother] and her 3rd husband Gladden E. “Jim” Bowland (1918-2002)
Prompt of the Week: Out of Place

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Marriage license announcement from Tucson Daily Citizen newspaper, Oct. 25, 1952, page 15. (image from Ancestry.com) (Note: Their ages are incorrect – he was actually 34, and she was 42)

Bowland-Gley_marriage1952I was very surprised to stumble on a certain newspaper marriage license notice while searching Ancestry.com a few years ago. It was for my wife’s great-grandmother and her 3rd husband Jim in 1952. And it was in, of all places, a newspaper in Tucson, Arizona – where I live. Rita and Jim never lived in Tucson, so I was confused as to why they would get married here. My next step was a trip downtown to the Pima County courthouse to get a copy of the actual marriage certificate. While I didn’t really learn anything new from the certificate, (the witnesses were Jim’s sister and brother-in-law, and they didn’t live in Arizona either) it’s another item of evidence that’s important to have when piecing together an ancestor’s life. My hypothesis is that they were traveling from California to Florida and got married along the way. I have a ship’s passenger list showing Rita’s arrival in San Francisco from Hawaii on Oct. 11, 1952, and the marriage in Tucson was 13 days later on Oct. 24, 1952. They lived in Florida after that, so I just imagine them probably driving from California though Arizona along various state highways and desert roads, as I-10 and the interstate highway system did not yet exist. We may never know if their Tucson marriage was planned or spontaneous, but Tucson was definitely much more of an old west town back then, and did they feel out of place…? I can surmise that it could have been quite a novelty for them to travel through and maybe experience a little bit of the desert southwest culture.

Week 15: 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – Mary (Fels) Hays Begley

Ancestors of the Week: Mary Emma “Mamie” (Fels) Hays Begley (1884-1974) [my 2x great grandmother]
Prompt of the Week: DNA

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Mary Begley obituary, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, Dec 17, 1974, page 24. (From newspapers.com)

My 2x great grandmother Mamie was a bit of a mystery. I lost track of her after the 1940 census, and had only a clue to her death date from an unsourced family tree I found online. I finally had a breakthrough when her son’s Missouri death certificate became available online, and I learned that she had a different last name due to remarrying. (Still looking for that pesky marriage record though) I was then able to find her obituary and confirm her date of death. She was my last surviving 2x great-grandparent, living up until 10 years before I was born. My dad remembers visiting her as a kid in St. Louis. The reason for writing about her under the category of DNA, is that I now have three fairly close DNA matches who all descend from her, and a few others who are more distantly related. My hope is to make contact with them and learn more about Mamie, and maybe even get a photo of her. And maybe we already have one and just don’t know it – there are many unidentified photos in our collection from that side of the family.

Week 14: 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – The Panama Connection… Eccles & Jones

Ancestors of the Week: Henry Arthur Eccles & Anita Jones(?) [my wife’s 2x great grandparents]
Prompt of the Week: Brick Wall

Arthur EcclesGrandma & Christina EcclesThis ancestral couple of my wife’s is the biggest brick wall in my genealogy research so far. They are a set of her paternal 2x great-grandparents. (One of their children was my wife’s great-grandmother Rita (Eccles) Bowland, who passed away in 2013 at the age of 102.) We know very little about their lives, and I can’t even say for sure Anita’s maiden name was Jones. That’s my best guess based on the few records I have found. The few DNA matches on that side who have trees all have Joneses in them, I just haven’t yet connected them to our Anita Jones. Her surname may have also been Sauvey or Sovough. Here’s what I do know: They lived in Panama in the early 20th century, and were of mostly European descent. There is a connection to the island of Trinidad as well – which was variously a European colony, and a part of the African slave trade. (A small percentage of African DNA is present in all who have tested from that line.) Anita lived in Panama up until at least 1927 when daughters Victoria and Rita left for America. The other two children were possibly named Harry and Celestine/Christina. Henry Arthur may have had a brother named Ernest who worked on the construction of the Panama Canal. My biggest questions about the family are how did they get to Trinidad/Panama, and why? What happened to them and the other siblings? When/where did they die? Who were their parents and where did they come from originally? The answers have to be out there somewhere.

Week 13: 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks – “Tarzan” rescues McLaughlins from fire

Ancestor of the Week: McLaughlin family [my wife’s grandmother and family]
Prompt of the Week: In the Paper

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Photo of newspaper clipping, presumably from the San Francisco Examiner.

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Article image from the San Francisco Chronicle, 1 Feb 1945, page 9. (from genealogybank.com)

I have found so much great family history information in newspapers over the years. From obituaries, to court cases, to everyday comings and goings – the social media of their day, newspapers have been an invaluable resource for my research. I wanted to highlight one story I learned about via a newspaper article that, had a different outcome happened, my life would be very different. My wife’s grandmother Evelyn, her parents, and five siblings were rescued from a fire in their San Francisco apartment building in 1945. She was the youngest at nine years old, and her oldest siblings were 16-year-old twins Doris and Dorothy. They were alerted to the fire by a 19-year-old man named Leandro “Tarzan” Martinez, who helped the twins jump from a window to escape. I am curious how he got his nickname – if he had it before, or if it came about because of this incident. He certainly earned it by leaping from the window to escape the fire! If not for him, the family might not have all been rescued, and my wife wouldn’t be here today! On a trip to San Francisco a few years ago, we drove by the building at the address listed in the article – we weren’t sure how much of it was original to the time – it would have needed to be at least partially rebuilt, but it was cool to visit the place where my wife’s family lived.

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The scene of the fire, 2449 Harrison St., San Francisco. (Photo taken by me in 2016)